Keith* and I also came across within our 40s that are late turning points inside our life. We had been both newly divorced and our youngsters had left for university. Within my very first wedding sex had been constantly a battle, and my ex accused me personally of getting a libido that is low. However when we began dating Keith, we recognized that we wasn’t the “problem. ” We traveled a complete lot together along with intercourse at every opportunity: on a buddy’s sleep at a social gathering, in restaurant restrooms, even outside in a park!
We got hitched in a ceremony that is small by our youngsters and good friends. Right away, our relationship ended up being constantly extremely passionate, but even as we joined our belated 50s—I’m 56 and Keith is 59—our sex life slowed up. Keith’s erection dysfunction had been a reason that is huge.
I might never ever state that in the front of Keith, as well as given that we have reached a spot where we are able to talk about what is been taking place when it comes to previous couple of years, We nevertheless would not utilize the term “erectile disorder. ” I believe a guy’s ego is quite linked with their capacity to perform during intercourse.